13 Witchy Ways to Spice Up Your Sex Life

Conjure a Love Spell

A little love magic never hurt anyone, right? Craft a simple spell to enhance the connection between you and your lover. Gather ingredients like rose petals, cinnamon, vanilla, and candles. As you light the candles, focus on your intentions. Are you seeking a deeper connection, renewed intimacy, or simply some hot fucking? Chant your desires and let the magic work its way into your bedroom.

Potion-Making for Witchy Passion

Create a provocative potion through the use of ingredients that are known aphrodisiacs. A mix of honey, cinnamon, and vanilla can be brewed into a warm drink that you and your partner(s) can share. This combination of ingredients is proven to boost libido and make the blood rush to the body’s erogenous zones—making it absolutely perfect for a chilly October night.

Naughty Costumes and Role Play

Halloween is all about dressing up, so why not introduce sexy costumes and role-play in the bedroom.

• Become a wanton nurse, a naughty puppy, or a ravenous vampire–dressing up can help you and your lover(s) step out of your everyday selves and into an exciting world of fantasy.  

• Role-play can be a thrilling way to explore different power dynamics, including  doctor/patient and student/teacher kink. 

• This type of play can also add the element of surprise to your sexy time. 

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Tarot Card Foreplay

Use a tarot deck to predict the type of witchy sex you have on Halloween night. Each card can represent a different type of sex act or the way you touch each other. For example, the Lovers card could signal a passionate kiss, while the High Priestess card might suggest it’s time for some Queening. Shuffle the deck and let fate decide how to fuck.

Magical Water Rituals

The use of water has always been associated with purification and sensuality in witchcraft. Draw a bath with herbs such as lavender, rose, and jasmine. Add a dash sea salt for cleansing and a few drops of essential oils like ylang-ylang or sandalwood to increase arousal during bath time. Invite your partner to join you in this steamy ritual and don’t hesitate to introduce some waterproof sex toys to enhance your orgasms.

Crystal Energy

Crystals like rose quartz and garnet are known for their sex-enhancing properties. Incorporate them into your sexy time by placing them around your bed or even rubbing them on your bodies while making love. Also consider a crystal dildo. This is an option in multiple scenarios… when practicing self-love or fucking your partner. Their energy is believed to amplify feelings of love, passion, and desire—and could be the perfect magical addition to your Halloween night.

Spellbinding Scents

Using the power of aromatherapy, it’s possible to create a bewitching bedroom atmosphere. Scents like patchouli, sandalwood, and vanilla can heighten arousal. Light some candles or use a diffuser to fill your space with these intoxicating smells, and set the stage for a night full of fucking.

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Full Moon Rituals

The full moon is a powerful time for manifesting desires. Plan a night of hot sex around the full moon, incorporating its energy into pleasuring yourself and your partner. Consider even taking your activities outdoors, summoning sexual deities, such as Aphrodite and Hedone, and having eco-sex. By fully embracing the natural world, you build anticipation and cum even more intensely.

Erotic Spell Books

Think about crafting a book of spells; however, instead of filling it with traditional magic, fill it with erotic sex ideas, kink play, Dom/sub fantasies, and fetishes. This shared project can become an exciting and sexy way to inspire communication with your partner. And as you add new “spells” to try, your relationship remains fresh and unpredictable.

Sacred Bonding Rituals

Create a bonding ritual that is unique to you and your partner. This could involve something as simple as chanting vows or offering murmurs of commitment, or it could involve different types of BDSM play, including bondage or knife play (a disclaimer, though, realize risk comes with BDSM sex, and you should fully communicate before engaging in a scene and also establish safe words that set limits). Rituals can strengthen your emotional, spiritual, and sexual connection and make your sex life that much more profound.

Witchy Games

Turn classic Halloween games into something more risqué. Try a sexy version of truth or dare or some naughty “hide and seek.” You could even create a scavenger hunt that involves clues that lead to different types of sex positions or involve more partners. Games can increase the tension and excitement and add levels of unpredictability both inside and outside of the bedroom.

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Make Your Own Lube

Brew your own coconut oil-based lube or massage oil. Grab aphrodiasiac herbs, including Ginkgo, Ginseng, Maca, and Tribulus. Some studies suggest that these herbs, traditionally used in Asian, Indian, and South American cultures can help boost the intensity of an erection and also send blood flow to the pussy… heightening orgasms. Quick word of caution… if you use latex condoms for pregnancy and STD prevention, coconut oil is not recommended.

Dance with the Dark Side

We’re huge fans of any sort of kink—provided it’s consensual and everyone is on board with this type of sex play. Talk with your lover about what turns you on, including: 

• Power Exchange 
• Domination and Submission 
• Edging 
• Humiliation
• Light Choking or Hair Pulling 

Kink can be a deeply erotic way to connect.