WTF is a Venus Butterfly?

Ah… the Venus Butterfly. No, it’s not an exotic winged insect only be found in the depths of the Amazon rainforest. 

Nor is it the lower back tattoo you got during a drunk and sloppy night in college. 

Rather, the Venus Butterfly is a sultry and fantastically orgasmic sex technique. Think of it as traditional cunnilingus on steroids.

The Venus Butterfly sex move puts all of the focus on your pleasure as a woman. It has the potential to make your eyes roll back into your head when performed correctly.

Get up to speed with this must-try sex position. Then, push your partner’s head down south so they can get to licking, kissing, and playing with your puss.

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How to Perform the Venus Butterfly

Right off the bat, know that this oral sex position is really easy to adapt and incredibly versatile. The receiver (you) can choose the position that you like the most. For instance, you can lie down, stand up, sit in a chair, perch on all fours, you name it.

Ultimately, the Venus Butterfly is when your partner licks your clit while using their fingers or a vibrator to penetrate your vagina and stimulate the G-spot. They use their other hand to massage your perineal area, potentially even slipping a finger in your butt.

Yes, tons of multitasking going on there for sure! But trust us when we say the extra work is worth it. Your definition of what it means to cum will be forever changed!

Venus Butterfly Tips, Tricks & Advice

There is an art form to this sex act—and getting it right is key to achieving the mother of all orgasms. 

Here are some tips:

• When the giver is going down on the receiver, try pulling back the hood of the clit as they lick it with their tongue. This has the potential to heighten the clitoral orgasm.
• The giver should use their left thumb to pull the mons Venus (Latin for mound of Venus—hence the name) up so the clit is fully exposed. Then, they can lick and suck it. (This is usually where deep moaning begins—and if that’s the case, don’t stop.)
• Up next, the giver should use their fingers and put them inside the vagina to offer internal stimulation. A vibrator can be used here as well.
• If the receiver is down for it, to rub and massage them anally. Paying special attention to the thousands of nerve endings found around (and in) the ass is fucking hot.
• Another thing to think about is delaying the climax and turning this foreplay into tantric fucking. The giver brings the receiver just to the point of orgasm. Then, they stop for 10-15 seconds before resuming the action. If you go this route, potentially think about using some edible lube. Additionally, massage oil or lotion will also keep the pussy wet as you tease out the pleasure.

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Cassandra, 33, is bisexual. She had just gotten out of a relationship with a woman whose specialty was the Venus Butterfly. After the break-up, she had to teach her next lover, a man, the move. 

“My ex-girlfriend, Jess, was a pro at this move, probably because she’s a woman and she understands what feels good–that the clit needs attention, too. When I started fucking Tyler, he needed some guidance when he went down on me.”

There was some trial and error, but now Tyler is now a master of the Venus Butterfly.

“He loves making me cum, and he really gets into it. Eating my pussy is one of his favorite things to do–so of course, I let him indulge.  I showed him how I like for him to pull back my clit’s hood while he licks my pussy, and told him to finger me at the same time. I personally love for two fingers to be in my vag and one in my ass–that’s what feels good to me, and that’s the technique I like.”

An Excellent Oral Sex Position to Try

The fact is that most women can’t cum during sex based on penetration alone. The Venus Butterfly provides so much arousal. It’s totally possible to have multiple orgasms with this technique.nd what could be hotter than cumming in someone’s mouth? 

Once you try this form of oral sex, traditional pussy eating might become just one of the many offerings on your menu.