How to Have Travel Fling Vacation Sex

It doesn’t matter if you’re traveling solo or planning a fun getaway with friends; it’s always perfectly fine to take some time off and let your hair down. And if your vacation pleasure goals also include some fun and spontaneous sex, go for it. 

No-strings-attached vacation sex is a must-do at some point in life. However, there are some best practices to follow in order to ensure that your vacation fucktime is fun, safe, and enjoyable.

Here are some dos and don’ts for ultra-steamy sex while traveling.

Keep the Sex Safe

Of course, let’s start by saying that fucking a rando on vacation, having a one-night stand, or even letting your fling go on for several days is perfectly normal—just remember to make sure you are always safe.

Whether traveling alone or with friends, make sure you share your location with someone you can trust. Don’t take unnecessary risks. If you end up in a place that feels sketchy or dangerous, trust your instincts and get the hell out of there.

Also, don’t forget the protection—no one wants to bring home an STD or an unplanned pregnancy as a souvenir.

Spice Up Your Itinerary

What’s the first thing to do when your plane touches down, and you want to get down? Start swiping! A dating or hookup app like Tinder is the perfect tool to meet potential partners at your destination.

Browse the app and see who’s in your area. Also, consider making a trip-specific profile so you can leave out information related to your “real” life and keep the persona you have created as strictly fling-focused.

Other Ways to Find Someone to Fuck

Depending on what your vacation looks like—exploring a new city, going on a cruise, lounging around a tropical resort—there are a lot of different ways to find a fuck buddy.

Resorts and cruises oftentimes hold singles’ events, club nights, and other types of mixers that bring people of all backgrounds together. Plus, the fact that you’re going to have the chance to interact with other vacationers and single people who are ready for some fun means that it could be quite easy to find someone who wants some sex just like you.

Or, if you’re visiting another city and are unfamiliar with the lay of the land when looking to get laid, scope out the party scene, nightclubs, dive bars… whatever vibe you enjoy, or a place you have been curious about exploring.

If you have matched with someone on a dating app, invite them out, which can help you talk, flirt, and have some fun. Again, just remember, make sure someone you trust knows where you’re going and the name of the person you’re with.

Vacation Sex Memories

Anna, 26, recounts a recent vacation fling when she was abroad, visiting Seville, Spain. 

“I set up a new profile on Match prior to arriving in Spain and started checking out profiles pretty much in the Uber from the airport,” she recalls. “Now, I didn’t make it the focal point of the trip–after all, I was traveling with some friends and wanted to explore Seville, too.”

However, match did match, and bigtime!

“This Spanish guy–he lived just outside Seville. We hit it off online, and I invited him out one night. Initially, my friends were around, but then he and I took off on our own. A tip here: keep an AirTag on you and have a friend track you on their phone; that’s what I did. It helped me feel really safe, and it was so easy. The Spaniard and I ended up dancing and then taking it back to my hotel room.”

And she set the expectations from the start.

“I told him I was only visiting from Chicago and that this would not turn into anything permanent or long-distance. He was cool with that–and holy fuck, it was some of the best sex of my life. I saw him a few times while I was there; when I left, we kissed goodbye, and that was that.”

A Few Rules to Keep in Mind…

At the end of the day, follow Anna’s advice. Communication is important when finding someone to fuck and have vacation sex with.

If you have found a potential vacation fling, make sure they know you are just visiting and what you’re looking for.  They might be perfectly okay with satisfying your desires and keeping the sex fun, physical, and easy—but they also might be looking for something more.

If you plan on ending things after a night of fucking, let them know this. It’s only polite, after all, and you likely would want the same courtesy from a partner if they were on the hunt for pussy in the proverbial pound-town you call home. 

Considering their feelings and taking the other person seriously is paramount to guaranteeing you both have a good time.

Get Outside Your Comfort Zone

Vacations are all about freedom and exploration, and it really is a perfect opportunity to try something hot and sexy with someone new. Take this chance to explore a new type of partner, maybe entertain the idea of fucking another woman (so long as you are in a place where it is culturally safe to do so), or go to a sex club where no one knows you.

So long as you aren’t doing anything illegal, toeing the line with local customs, or taking any risks with your health or safety, go for it. Enjoy your time away… be ready for anything, including endless orgasms, honey.