Golden showers are among the most well-known forms of piss play. But what does it really mean in practice? And if you’re curious, then how can you explore your pee kink safely?
Whether you’re ready to dive in or want to explore things from the sidelines, fear not… we’ve got you covered. It’s time to demystify this oft-misunderstood kink, so grab your life jackets because today, we’re talking watersports.
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Golden Showers vs Piss Play – What’s the Difference?
The term “golden shower” is sometimes used as a catch-all term for all pee-kink action, a.k.a watersports. It also refers specifically to the act of one person peeing on another–but in a sexy way, rather than the consequence of standing in the wrong place at the wrong time or during an unfortunate run-in with a jellyfish.
The clinical name for enjoying piss play is urophilia, but there’s nothing clinical about consenting adults enjoying each other… no matter how that manifests. Despite the stigma, watersports are a pretty common kink and certainly nothing to be ashamed of.
Whatever floats your boat, as they say. Although you might need a lot of piss for that!
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Staying Safe While Exploring Golden Showers
If you’re interested in a trip to the yellow waterfall, then the first thing you’ll need is a willing participant. But what if you’ve found that special someone and are unsure where to start?
First things first: consent, consent, consent!! It’s essential to make sure you and your partner are clear about any boundaries and limits before you start piss play. Pee might really get other juices flowing, but you might not want piss everywhere. Are any body parts off limits? For instance, faces, mouths, and hair.
Piss play is pretty low risk, but please be aware that certain infections and viruses can be passed through urine, especially if it comes into contact with open wounds.
You also need to know that peeing into vaginas will really mess with the pH balance down there. This is not the place for target practice unless you want a fast track to a profoundly unsexy yeast infection. On the flip side, unlike the vagina, pissing into the ass is okay. Just know to be ready for the consequences. What goes in must come out!
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Avoiding Piss Play Pitfalls – Make a Plan
Planning ahead is the best way to ensure your golden shower is enjoyable. Firstly, think about where you’re going to do it. Unsurprisingly, showers and baths are a good bet as they’re contained and easy to clean up. Plus, if you decide piss play isn’t your thing after all, then it’s easy to immediately rinse off. A good alternative is to use training pads (like what you would use when potty training a puppy). And decent reusable and disposable options are available.
Pissing on command can be really hard, especially if you’re aroused or a little nervous. A full bladder can really help here. Besides, super-concentrated pee smells terrible and is best to be avoided… unless that’s your thing. Assuming it isn’t, the pisser should focus on getting nice and hydrated by drinking plenty of water for an hour or two before play commences.
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Embracing Golden Showers Without Shame
It’s not uncommon to feel shame and stigma around kink and fetish sex play, and that’s especially the case when dealing with something like piss. Golden showers are seen as taboo by many.
But if golden showers get you and your partner excited, then that’s fine–and know many other people feel the same way. So, instead of worrying about what anybody else thinks, educate yourself on the best ways to enjoy watersports, talk openly and honestly with your partner, and plan ahead.
So, there we have it, watersports, golden showers, and how to do them safely. Go forth, have some pee-soaked fun and don’t let anyone else’s judgment piss all over your parade!
