WTF is Fisting?

Why Do People Like to Fist Fuck?

While fisting is usually performed on someone who has a vagina, it’s important to realize that it can be a form of ass-sex play that anyone can partake in.  And in either case, fisting can feel good because it offers a one-of-a-kind sensation of fullness.

When someone places their entire hand inside you, more nerve endings are reached and stimulated. Plus, the intensity of feeling stretched and spread open is a deeply arousing psychological experience. Fisting can be awesomely intimate both for the giver and the receiver and is a type of penetration that also allows for eye contact. That can up the pleasure factor as the giver has the opportunity to be fully present in witnessing their partner’s sexual gratification.

• As we said, make sure you have plenty of lube—thicker, silicone-based lubes are usually the best option since water-based lubes can sometimes be sticky.
• Consider using latex gloves, which can help the fister slide their hand into the fistee’s vagina or ass easier—black ones can up the sexiness, in our opinion. Also, making sure the nails are cut short is a good idea.
• Foreplay is essential—don’t overlook this step. Make sure the hole you are fisting is primed, wet, and ready.
• Start with one finger and then add another, and another, until all five are in—use the fingers to warm up the pussy or the asshole. It’s also helpful if the fistee does some deep breathing as this is occurring to remain relaxed.
• From here, the fister can create a “duck shape” with their fingers. This means the fingers are straight and pressed together.
• If the vagina or anus is ready and willing, at this point, the giver can “close the duck’s mouth.” Realize that you aren’t inserting a closed fist (you aren’t punching the pussy or ass, okay?) but a tapered hand.
• Finally, thrust the fist in and out at a faster pace, provided the receiver is comfortable and enjoying this kinky sex.
• Make sure a safe word is established before fist-fucking so there is a clear signal if this sex play needs to stop.

How Does the Giver Remove Their Fist?

No matter if the fisting is being performed on a pussy or a butthole, removing the fist can be a bit trickier than its original penetration.

A good best practice is to have the fistee cough instead of taking deep breaths during the removal. This will enable muscles to push the fist out of the body. Keep in mind that this is the time of this sex act when the receiver is most likely to be injured. Coughing helps the body work with you. Also, take the fist out the same way you put it in, slowly and finger by finger.