When it comes to sexual exploration and experiences, double penetration is what it sounds like. It’s when you’re having sex, and your ass and pussy get penetrated at the same time. It can also be when two objects are going into the same hole.
Popular in threesome porn, double penetration is most depicted when one man fucks a woman vaginally at the same time another man penetrates her anally.
In the scheme of things, however, there are multiple ways to have erotic DP sex. All stir passion, curiosity, and pleasure. And not all require there to be a third person in the room, either (although, let’s face it, we are huge fans of three-way sex).
So, if you’re interested in getting both of your holes plugged at the same time, consider some different variations on this popular sex position.
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The Fantasy of DP Sex
Double penetration is a hot multi-partner sex fantasy that can be introduced in threesomes, gangbangs, and orgies. DP sex is also popular in the BDSM community and is sometimes associated with kinky sex.
However, if you’re new to all of that and want to ease into things before you allow two dudes to fuck you in the vajayjay and ass at the same time, think about these other ways to do DP fucking.
There Are Multiple Meanings to Double Penetration
- If your partner has a dick, have him fuck you anally or vaginally. Then, use a sex toy (i.e., butt plug, vibrator, bullet) on the hole that he isn’t in. (However, he can also put it in the orifice he is occupying—more on that later.)
- Regardless if you’re with a partner or doing solo sex, stick a dildo in your pussy while you have a butt plug in your ass.
- Having your partner perform oral sex on your while shoving anal beads up your butt.
- Placing an internal vibrator in your ass while also using a butt plug.
- On that same variation, putting a bullet (most commonly on a cord with a remote control) in your vagina while also inserting a dildo.
- Wearing a ball gag on your face while being penetrated in your pussy or ass.
- Having your partner fist your vagina while backdooring a finger or two.
- For solo play, using a double-headed dildo and putting one end in your puss and one in your rear.
- Of course, having multiple partners penetrate both holes simultaneously with their cocks or with strap-ons and dildos.
Additionally, double penetration can also include the act of two penises or toys penetrating one vagina or one asshole at the same time. That does take a lot of coordination and communication between partners to ensure safety.
Why Are People Into DP?
Because it can be capital-h Hot!
Of course, there is a taboo nature associated with this type of fucking. But from a sex-positive standpoint, DP sex can fulfill a fantasy.
Mentally, it can enable one or two of the partners to dominate and feel powerful over the submissive’s pleasure. It can also control levels of pressure and dictate how the receiver cums. From a physical aspect, it can intensify the sensation of sex. It can make the receiver feel stimulated and “fuller” than simple penetration of only one hole can allow for.
Miranda, 39, regularly masturbates with a butt plug and a vibrator but ended up introducing DP in the bedroom to spice things up with her partner.
“I’m totally fine with anal sex, but up until this point, it had been one hole or the other during sex for me.”
She explains that to get comfortable, she laid on her back while her partner penetrated her missionary style, and then she used her vibrator vaginally.
“There was this initial feeling like I was being stretched out, but then it turned into this sensation of fullness—like one really huge cock was in me. There is a mental turn-on there because you feel ‘naughty’ by what you’re doing, and also this incredible sense of decadence at the levels of pleasure you’re receiving.”
How to Try Double Penetration with a Partner
If you’re going to do DP sex with one partner or multiple, then we recommend talking about what iteration of double penetration you’re going to do.
Make Sure to Address:
- Who will be double penetrated?
- What hole(s) will be entered? And in what order?
- What DP positions will be explored?
- How to keep the sex safe, i.e., preventing pregnancy and STIs, using condoms, and the like. (Know that there is a strong likelihood of condoms breaking because of friction—remain aware of this.)
- What’s your safe word? And if the mouth is being penetrated, what’s the nonverbal sign to use to pause, slow down, or stop?
- The mess potential. Lay down some old sheets or towels, just like with anal sex.
Some other key considerations? If you’re using a toy in your ass, make sure it has a flared base. Also, make sure not to transfer any toy or penis from your bum to your pussy—this can cause a bacterial infection, and no one wants that. Plus, make sure that when the double penetration is over, you go to the bathroom immediately.
Finally, don’t forget the lube. When you think you have enough lube, think again and apply some more.
Two Times the Pleasure
The bottom line is that double penetration can offer intense orgasms for everyone involved and delivers the chance to explore many different types of fucking.
Learn more about having DP sex. Watch DP porn solo or with your partner(s), talk about what positions excite you and what DP fantasy makes you cum hardest.
And then, try it out. There’s no harm in becoming a sex sandwich.
