When it comes to culturally rich locales, Tokyo is impossible to go wrong with. A bustling metropolis, Tokyo is ideal for solo travel as well as with your significant other or friend tribe. It’s time to fulfill your dreams of the Far East, satiate your wanderlust, and get ready for a sexy, good time.
The best part? Tokyo is friendly to all people and has one of the largest LGBTQ+ communities in all of Japan. No matter your relationship status, gender identity, or sexual orientation, you’ll feel safe and welcome in this city.
Now, let’s get to the good part and explore some hot neighborhoods and places to add to your itinerary.
Chiyoda: Landmarks By Day, Sexy Adventures By Night
If you’re looking for something fun and exciting on the erotic meter, we have the locations for you:
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Take in the Sexy Scenery at Cafe Mai:lish
Cafe Mai:lish is famous for its servers’ sexy maid attire. While there is a “look but don’t touch” policy, these seductive maids are sure to raise your temperature and get your blood pumping.
So, what exactly is a maid cafe?
A maid cafe is a cosplay-themed cafe where the waitresses are dressed in maid attire to serve the customers.
While this cafe only slightly simmers on the heat meter, it’s the perfect precursor to what will follow later that night. Cafe Mai:lish may be popular for their unique food and drink menu, but that’s not the only thing that draws in customers by the hundreds.
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Play Out A Sex Fantasy at the Aman Resort
A high-end and sensuous destination, the Aman Resort delivers a five-star luxury experience. Suites are decked out with plush bedding and feature views that overlook the city. It is the absolute perfect ambiance for some steamy vacation sex.
The complimentary mini-bar and deep window-side stone bathtubs offer an unforgettable, wet night of pleasure.
Then, after sleeping it off, you can relax your sore muscles with a custom Japanese healing massage treatment.
Taito: Indulge Your Fantasies In This Whirlwind of a Neighborhood
Visit these Taito neighborhood gems to spice up your trip:
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Cya Shitsu Ryokan Asakusa Hotel Inn
With a rating of 9.6 on booking.com, you wouldn’t want to miss out on this hotel. The inn offers a hot tub, spacious rooms, and soundproof units for nights full of unforgettable pleasure. You can be as loud as you please for as long as you want. The dim lighting provides the perfect aura to set the tone for one of the most toe-curling nights you’ll ever have with your lover (or lovers).
After a night of passion, you will be served a complimentary Japanese breakfast delivered directly to your room every morning. We encourage you to get your strength back, there are plenty of attractions within walking distance for you to visit.
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Partake in Some Retail Therapy at Nakamise-dori
This is the perfect place to wind down and do some shopping. There are many small shops that offer Japanese souvenirs and crafts as well as Japanese apparel. If you are feeling famished after a mid-day fuck, there is also a large array of vendors that sell snacks and sweet treats.
Ueno: Where Beauty Meets History and Culture
Known for ornate Shinto and Zen landmarks, the Ueno district is a nature lover’s paradise. The area is home to many attractions and even a large zoo. What stands out, however, is Ueno Park.
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Bask in the Beauty of Ueno Park
Looking for something a little slower-paced and closer to nature before getting it on with your lover? If so, you’re in luck.
Tokyo has a plethora of romantic locations to visit with your partner or vacay fuck buddy.
Our favorite is Ueno Park, a massive public space that is home to iconic shrines, temples (many of which have free entry), and gorgeous museums. In addition, this park features cherry blossoms, a Shinobazu pond, zoological gardens, and much more.
Chronicle this Insta-worthy day, take in the culture and scenery, and maybe even throw down a blanket and have a romantic picnic with your partner. After all, connecting with nature is a powerful aphrodisiac.
Shibuya: Packed With Innocent Fun And Nightlife Pleasure
Spice up your itinerary with these scorching Shibuya hotspots:
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Fuel Up at Uoshin Shibuya
For our folks who are looking to have a tamer experience, check out Uoshin. Uoshin is a popular izakaya (Japanese-style pub) located near Shibuya Station.
They offer a welcoming but sensual environment where customers can experience authentic Japanese cuisine and drinking culture. The pub is the perfect place to wind down after a long, adventure-filled day.
Kabukicho: Get Hot And Heavy In This Electric Town
Ensure your trip has the perfect amount of spice by adding these zesty Kabukicho hotspots to your agenda:
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Stay at a Love Hotel
Who doesn’t love a good hotel, especially when traveling with a lover or looking for a hook-up abroad?
In Japan, you can find numerous “love hotels”, which are perfect for a sexy getaway. These hotels are designed with guest privacy in mind, which is awesome if you want to explore a kink, fuck a new partner, or try group sex.
At a Love Hotel, you’ll benefit from features like soundproof rooms, anonymous check-ins, and other sexy perks that ensure whatever type of fucking you’re doing, it will be kept confidential.
Some locations also allow for short-term stays, so if you happen to meet a special someone while out on the town and want to lock yourself behind closed doors for a few days, you shouldn’t have trouble finding a safe and discreet place to fuck.
Just remember, make sure that you take the right safety precautions. Whether you’re traveling solo or you’re with a group of friends, always tell someone where you’re going so they know your location. If you’re going to have vacation sex, do it responsibly.
Night Walk in Kabukicho, Tokyo’s Red Light District | Sugoii Japan via Youtube
Red Light District
Kabukicho is Tokyo’s red light district, which takes a unique and more subtle approach to the concept (as opposed to the red light district in Amsterdam) since prostitution is technically illegal in Japan.
Instead, you’ll find themed clubs and bars with women roleplaying as secretaries, nurses, schoolgirls, and more. You can rent sex dolls, participate in naked karaoke, enjoy a peepshow, or even partake in a good scrubbing at a “soapland”.
In total, there are approximately 300 sex shops and 80 love hotels in this district alone, so you’ll definitely find something to tickle your fancy.
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Karaoke-Kan
Karaoke-Kan offers customers a unique, alluring experience by allowing them to rent private rooms to sing their favorite karaoke in a comfortable and relaxing setting. This is a favorite choice for tourists because of the spacious rooms, affordable rates, and wide range of food and drink options. Song selections are available in various languages, including English, Japanese, and Korean. Karaoke-Kan is known as a popular nightlife scene in Kabukicho.
Shinjuku: Daytime Buzz, Erotic Nightlife
Shinjuku Ni-chome is recognized as Tokyo’s unofficial “gay district.” Venturing into this part of Tokyo as someone of the LGBTQ+ community is like stepping through the gates of Elysium. The bars and clubs in this area are incredibly accommodating, especially to tourists.
Incorporate these sizzling Shinjuku gems into your travel plans:
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2-Chrome, 1-Chrome, 3-Chrome
So, let us first state for the record, as we noted previously, prostitution is illegal in Japan even though Tokyo has a large and bustling escort business. With that being said, proceed with caution–and if you partake in some sexy fun and get arrested, no, we do not have your bail money and cannot find you an attorney. You’re on your own there, sweetie.
Now that we got that disclaimer out of the way–let us tell you what you need to know.
Featuring everything from orgies to anal, no matter what you’re looking for, it’s without a doubt you will find it (or it will find you).
1-chrome is a famous brothel in the red-light district located near Shinjuku that is for transsexuals. If you’re looking for an unforgettable night, this is the place for you. 2-chrome is a bar catered to gay men. For same-sex couples, this spot is the jackpot. It’s quite literally a free-for-all and who knows what kind of good time you might find here. For the ladies, 3-chrome is a popular lesbian bar in Shinjuku. It is nothing short of an orgasmic time and is sure to leave you questioning if you ever want to leave.
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Golden Gai
If you’re looking for a night of bar hopping, The Golden Gai is a popular nightlife district in Shinjuku. This district consists of 200 tiny bars and restaurants, each with its own unique themes and characters.
It’s famous for its diverse range of establishments, including jazz bars, karaoke bars, whiskey bars, and Japanese izakaya.
It’s a popular destination for tourists and locals seeking an electric nightlife and someone to hook up with for one night. If you’re in the mood for some lovin’ to end the night on a high note, this is the place.
Akihabara: Home To The World’s Largest Sex Shop
Make sure to include these fiery Akihabara hotspots on your list of places to visit:
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Sexy Scenery at Home Cafe
At Home Cafe, you will find a four-floor popular maid cafe that draws in 600,000 people a year. The maids at Home Cafe are dressed in unique, originally made costumes and are there to make your fantasy a reality.
If you want a memento to take with you, you can snag a signed photograph with your favorite maid to remember your visit. If you happen to fall in love with one maid in particular, you can always request their attention on a repeat visit.
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Dust Off Your Wallet at M’s Sex Shop
M’s Pop Life is a seven-floor sex shop located in the Akihabara neighborhood, and it is reputed to be one of the largest sex stores in the entire world.
This inviting store does away with the stigma usually associated with sex shops that is sometimes prevalent in other countries. It has a “department-store vibe.” Just walk in, get your credit card ready, and shop to your heart’s (and your nether regions) delight!
Each floor is dedicated to different categories, including Shibari, dildos, dick sleeves, vibrators, bondage, butt plugs… you name it!
Ultimately, at M’s Pop Life, if there is something specific you want to shove up your ass or in your pussy, you’re bound to find it here! Placate any desire you have–just make sure you have room in your luggage and remember to pack your new toys correctly when going through airport security.
Uguisudani: Explore this Tokyo District Like a Local
Situated in Suburban East Tokyo, the Uguisudani district is the perfect area for acting like a local. During the day, you can dress up in a Kimono and stroll around Asakusa or go on a private food and drink tour. However, as the week winds down, it’s time to turn your attention to deeper and darker desires at the Department H fetish night.
Enjoy the Legendary Department H Fetish Party
Every first Saturday of the month, the Tokyo Kinema Club in the Uguisudani district hosts the Department H fetish night.
This event is great for people who want to explore various types of kink play and fetishes in a safe and welcoming environment. And orientation as well as gender identity aren’t a concern, either… it’s incredibly inclusive.
So, what are some of the highlights at Department H? Drag shows, girl-on-girl catfights (no worries, it’s kept friendly), and a balls-kicking competition (to the fellas, participation is not required).
Also, if you want to remain anonymous, masks are allowed, and you can get a discount when you show up in costume!
Chuo City: Upscale Tokyo Shopping & Renowned Sex Shop–Steamy Encounters Await
Don’t miss out on experiencing the heat of Chuo City by adding these spicy locales to your itinerary:
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You Don’t Want to Miss the Iroha Sex Shop
If you are looking for a spicier place to check out, the Iroha sex shop should be on your itinerary. Iroha carries a variety of sex toys, both for self-pleasure and for couples. Their options range from silicone external toys to insertable silicone toys, some being travel-size (in case you start to feel randy on the long plane ride home). Most of their options are rechargeable and come in different colors. They also carry items such as toy cleaners, intimate wash, and lube.
Iroha encourages customers to unlock their inner sex goddesses, whether through self-exploration or with a partner. Their mission is to help people define pleasure in their own way.
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Luxury Shopping Awaits in the Ginza District
Ginza is known for its upscale boutiques and department stores. This is the perfect place to take your lover after ravishing them the night before. After all, nothing says, “I’m sorry for eating your pussy like I was starving,” like a pair of new Louboutins.
After a long day of high-end shopping, treat yourselves to a meal at Sukiyabashi Juro, a Michelin-starred restaurant. This amazing spot offers a fine dining experience and has earned three Michelin stars for its exceptional quality and craftsmanship of the food. Sukiyabashi uses only the freshest ingredients sourced from the Tsukiji Fish Market to prepare top-quality sushi courses.
Tokyo Is A Tourist’s Sexy Paradise
There is much sexy fun to be had in Tokyo, no matter your sexual appetite or travel goals. Visit this city that is full of seductive energy, embrace its allure, and let its vibrant pulse awaken the sensual adventurer in you.
