It’s easy to get hot and bothered by the idea of suckling on a fantastic pair of titties. But what, exactly, does it mean if your sexual fantasy involves sucking on breasts that are full of milk? What is milking?
If this idea gets you horny, don’t stress. It’s simply a form of sexual expression… although, yes, it can be a tough kink to satisfy.
Let’s take a deep dive into all you need to know about a nursing relationship between two consenting adults.
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The Fetish that is Adult Breastfeeding
So, what is a milking fetish?
This type of sex play goes by a variety of terms, including adult breastfeeding, milking, and erotic lactation. Ultimately, it’s a kink that involves sucking on and feeding from a lactating female during sex.
However, know that this fetish doesn’t involve age play—there is no infantile pretense. Rather, it’s very much about two consenting adults fucking and using a woman’s breastfeeding capability as part of the sexual experience.
The Eroticism of Breast Feeding
It’s true that some people may look at this fetish and have a hard time grasping the arousal that comes from breastfeeding. That, ultimately, is likely due to the inability to disassociate the pleasure of erotic lactation from that of nursing a baby because it needs to eat.
However, milk fetishists abound. This group includes both kinksters and vanilla folk. They get off by the prospect of tits squirting milk. There is also masturbating while a woman engages in electric breast pumping. A milk fetish can also involve a woman massaging her breasts to put milk in a cup of coffee or over cereal. And to take it one step deeper, the fetish can also involve squirting their milky boobs on pussies, dicks, and assholes during fucking as well to trigger a partner’s orgasm.
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Milking and the Love Hormone
Regardless if a woman is breastfeeding or not, when one’s breasts are sucked on, oxytocin is released. This is also known as the “Love Hormone.”
Oxytocin is the same hormone that gets released post-orgasm. It results in the throbbing sensation inside the pussy, which are uterine contractions.
Some women have reported achieving orgasm while breastfeeding.
Tyra, 34, explains, “I’ve always enjoyed having my titties sucked. However, I’ve never had a nipple orgasm, truth be told—I’ve always needed penetration for that. However, after I had my first baby with my husband, I had a different experience.”
Tyra and her husband, Jacob, 42, were finally getting their sex life back on track. She had been cleared for intercourse by her doctor. The couple was in bed one night and recounted their experience.
“I’ve always loved my wife’s tits,” said Jacob. “But after she had our daughter, it was different, she was so ripe. I don’t know how else to explain it. I couldn’t wait to fuck her again. The first time we went at it, all I wanted to do was touch her all over. Rub her tits, get in her pussy. And then it happened.”
The moment Jacob started massaging Tyra’s very heavy, milk-filled breasts, she started lactating.
“All I wanted to do was drink from her. I wanted to try milking,” Jacob admits.
At first, Tyra was shocked because it was a new experience. Plus, she had just gotten used to breastfeeding her baby girl.
“But I realized I liked it. It was a serious turn-on to watch Jacob drink from me… suckle me. My only desire was for him to empty my breasts, to drink me dry. It made me come. And that nipple orgasm was intense. He hadn’t even put his dick in me yet. When I came, it didn’t take him much longer. He blew his load all over my boobs.”
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Feel Like Milking? Make Sure You Communicate
At the end of the day, breastfeeding fetishes are incredibly normal and really common. There’s nothing to be ashamed of if you are turned on by the idea of suckling a woman’s creamy, milk-filled boobs. Or if you enjoy being milked by your partner.
If you’re in a relationship with a partner who just had a baby, you might find that milking is incredibly personal and intimate. And it could strengthen your bond as new parents.
However, as with any sort of sex play or fetish, communication is key. If this is something you’re interested in trying, make sure there is consent between you and your partner. It doesn’t matter if you’re the one doing the milking or you’re the one who is being milked.
Talk about your desires and fantasies… and then, if everyone is on board, suck it up to your heart’s content.